TOPIC: RELATIONSHIP IN SCHOOL

1. Relationship in School

A relationship in school refers to the way students, teachers, and other school members interact with one another. Good relationships in school help to create a friendly and peaceful environment for learning.

Types of Relationships in School:

• Student-Student Relationship: The way students relate with their classmates and schoolmates.

• Student-Teacher Relationship: The way students respect and obey their teachers.

• Student-School Authority Relationship: The way students obey school rules and interact with school authorities like the principal and head teachers.

How to Maintain a Good Relationship in School:

• Be respectful to teachers and fellow students.

• Obey school rules and regulations.

• Be kind and helpful to others.

• Avoid fighting, gossiping, or bullying.

• Work together in school activities.

2. Names of Members of the School

A school is made up of different people who work together to ensure learning takes place.

Members of the School and Their Roles:

1. The Principal/Head Teacher – The leader of the school who makes sure everything runs smoothly.

2. Teachers – They teach and guide students in their studies.

3. Students – They are the learners in the school.

4. School Prefects – They help in maintaining order and discipline.

5. Class Captains – They assist teachers in the classroom.

6. Non-Teaching Staff (e.g., security guards, cleaners, and cooks) – They help in maintaining the school environment.

3. Choosing Friends in School

Friends are people we spend time with and share our thoughts, feelings, and experiences with. It is important to choose the right friends in school.

How to Choose Good Friends:

• Choose friends who have good behavior.

• Choose friends who respect teachers and elders.

• Choose friends who encourage you to study.

• Avoid friends who are involved in bad habits like lying and stealing.

• Choose friends who love and respect God.

4. Friendship Between David and Jonathan (1 Samuel 18:1-4, 1 Samuel 20:1-42)

David and Jonathan had a strong and loyal friendship. Jonathan was the son of King Saul, but he loved David like a brother.

Lessons from Their Friendship:

• Jonathan defended David when his father, Saul, wanted to harm him.

• They made a promise to always support each other.

• Jonathan gave David his robe, sword, and bow as a sign of love and trust.

• Their friendship was based on love, trust, and faith in God.

This story teaches us that a true friend should be kind, loyal, and supportive.

5. Effects of Having Good Friends

Good friends have a positive influence on our lives.

Benefits of Having Good Friends:

• They encourage us to do the right thing.

• They help us study and succeed in school.

• They support us when we are sad or in trouble.

• They help us grow in faith and prayer.

• They teach us good manners and respect.

6. Effects of Having Bad Friends

Bad friends can lead us into trouble and negatively affect our lives.

Dangers of Having Bad Friends:

• They influence us to lie, steal, and cheat.

• They make us disobey teachers and parents.

• They can lead us to bad habits like fighting and smoking.

• They may cause us to fail in school.

• They can separate us from God and good people.

Conclusion

Having good relationships in school helps students learn and grow in a peaceful environment. Choosing the right friends is very important because friends influence our behavior. The friendship between David and Jonathan teaches us that a true friend is loyal, caring, and supportive. We should avoid bad friends who lead us into trouble and always choose friends who help us become better people.

7. The Parable of the Friend at Midnight (Luke 11:5-10)

Jesus told the parable of the friend at midnight to teach about persistence in prayer and the importance of helping others.

The Story:

One night, a man had an unexpected visitor, but he had no food to offer him. So, he went to his friend’s house at midnight and knocked on the door, asking for three loaves of bread. The friend inside was reluctant to get up because it was late and he had already locked the door. However, because of the man’s persistence in knocking, the friend finally got up and gave him what he needed.

Lessons from the Parable:

• Persistence is important: Just as the man kept knocking until he got help, we should be persistent in our prayers and efforts.

• Friendship involves helping others: A good friend is willing to assist even when it is inconvenient.

• God answers prayers: If a friend can respond to persistence, how much more will God answer when we keep asking Him?

Connection to Friendship in School:

• A true friend is always there to help in times of need.

• We should not give up easily when we face challenges.

• Good friends support each other, just like the man who asked for help and his friend who eventually gave him bread.

This parable teaches that in school and in life, good friendships require persistence, kindness, and a willingness to help others.

Assignments

1. State the role of these people in a school community.
a. School prefect
b. Head of school
2. Briefly narrate the story of the friendship between David and Jonathan and state two lessons from it.
3. State three ways to maintain a good relationship in school.

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